Sometimes it takes a really long time to find people who are similar to you and have the same ideas about things. You can feel adrift in a choppy sea when you know you are the only one who thinks the way you do. Secondly, if others do not like who you really are, you are in the wrong company. You do have a lot to offer the world even if it is only your opinion. When you try to be someone else so that others will like you, it is damaging for two reasons:įirst, you are as much as admitting that you are not ok and have to be someone else to be accepted. My radio co host, Sally Nutter talks about this a lot. ⌄ Scroll down to continue reading article ⌄ 5. Responsibility has gotten a bad rap these days because too many people think it means blame. Ruthlessly weed them out of your life and watch things smooth right out. You will know them too by how well or poorly your life goes when they are near. You will know these people because they constantly put you down, stomp on your dreams, pretend that they are helping you when they are actually crushing you. They are a small percentage of people but the damage they do is horrible. There are certain people in life who are out to destroy not only you, but everyone in their environment. Even if you don’t handle it all at once, at least you will have started. If so, have a look at what the actual problem is and do something about it. Take the time to look over your life and see if there are any problems that you are not confronting and handling. Like the parking ticket that you decide to ignore, they grow and grow until they cannot be ignored any longer. When you run away from your problems, guess, what? They come with you! And who knows how better than someone successful? 2. There is no secret to success other than finding out how to do it. See what works for them and what doesn’t. Hang out with successful people and do what they do. They then give you these excuses as though they are fact. If you start believing them, you fail too. People who view themselves as failures look for and find all kinds of excuses for their failure. I learned very early on that in order to be successful in life, you had to hang out with successful people. These false ideas make us decide to do the destructive things. It doesn’t take long to realize that it is a load of BUNK, but we have no true information to take the place of the weird ideas that were supposed to make our lives wonderful.Īlso, there are many ways we do ourselves in without knowing it and in order to knock it off, we have to dig down deep and root out the false ideas that have been sold to us. We will find our perfect love and live happily ever after. We are taught from a very early age that if we think certain ways and do certain things, all will be well.
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